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Sunday, March 13, 2011

I finally did it :)

Today, I did my second Bridal Faire.

The first one I was so nervous and I really didn't know what to expect or what I had gotten myself into.  But, I think I did well...anyway.

But this time.

I fine tuned myself.  I took the advise of people that had come to my booth and of other vendors of what is needed in our community...and what I can do to get that niche.

I worked very hard researching ideas, figuring out what was good for me, what I was good at and how to show potential clients why I would be good for them.

Today was success!

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.
Abraham Lincoln
Today....I got many compliments from other vendors and received many promises of business.


And to think.............just the other night I got a call from a drunken man...yep...my brother.  Telling me how worthless I am but still his sister.  I would go on.....but...it's sad.


How an entire family can come up with a million excuses to NOT see the elephant in the room.
 
THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM
By Terry Kettering
There’s an elephant in the room.
It is large and squatting,
so it is hard to get around it.
Yet we squeeze by with,
“How are you?” and, “I’m fine,”
and a thousand other forms of trivial chatter.
We talk about the weather;
we talk about work;
we talk about everything else—
except the elephant in the room.
There’s an elephant in the room.
We all know it is there.
We are thinking about the elephant
as we talk together.
It is constantly on our minds.
For, you see, it is a very big elephant.
It has hurt us all, but we do not talk about
the elephant in the room.
Oh, please, say her name.
Oh, please, say “Barbara” again.
Oh, please, let’s talk about
the elephant in the room.
For if we talk about her death,
perhaps we can talk about her life.
Can I say, “Barbara” to you
and not have you look away?
For if I cannot,
then you are leaving me alone
in a room—with an elephant.
Have you been in a situation that you would like to share below, please do.
Taken from www.amyabrahams.com

Yes, we all have them.  Some are big and some are small.

My family has a huge one...and instead of dealing with it.....the person that pointed it out was shunned and called names.

But.............regardless of it.  And the names and threats I heard the other night.  I did good.  I am proud of me.  I did all of this myself.  With the support of people that love me and people that respect me.  And people that know....I talk about the elephant in the room.

It's how to get the elephant to leave  :)

Today...I am Proud from www.dictionary.com

proud

[proud] Show IPA adjective, -er, -est, adverb
–adjective
1.
feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or creditable to oneself (often followed by of,  an infinitive, or a clause).
2.
having, proceeding from, or showing a high opinion of one's own dignity, importance, or superiority.
3.
having or showing self-respect or self-esteem.
4.
highly gratifying to the feelings or self-esteem: It was a proud day for him when his son entered college.
5.
highly honorable or creditable: a proud achievement.
6.
stately, majestic, or magnificent: proud cities.
7.
of lofty dignity or distinction: a proud name; proud nobles.
8.
Chiefly South Midland and Southern U.S. pleased; happy: I'm proud to meet you.
9.
full of vigor and spirit: a proud young stallion.
10.
Obsolete . brave. 
 
 





Saturday, March 12, 2011

Saturday Night...the time change

, clockNot many people know this....except those that live in my house.  So, the kids & hubby.

But...the time change...really!  I know it's Spring Forward, Fall Back.........and it should make sense but it doesn't to me.

Which way do I turn the clock?  Is it really going to be 10:33 or 8:33 tomorrow at this time???

I have no idea!

Hubby is already asleep...and so is Sophie.  So, I have to do this by myself.

I read people posts on Facebook.  I looked it up on Google.

And I walked around the house...and set half the clocks.  That way if I am wrong.....I will only be half wrong  :)

So, I will be so impressed if I get it right.  I never do!  LOL

But, when I was looking for graphics for this blog...I found one that makes me feeling like I might have gotten it right.

So, this is what I did to half of our clocks.

Fingers crossed!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

It's only Thursday??? Really!?!

I have been running so much...I think I am coming up on me in the far lane  :)

But, I see a light.  Not a massive light tho....but, nevertheless....I sliver of a light.

I have everything just about prep-ed for Sundays Bridal Faire in Angel's Camp/Calaveras County.  My friend Shylah came over and helped me wrap minis for handouts in exchange for a long chat  :)  Thanks Shylah!

And I remembered I needed to have door prizes...and not gift certificates for my services.  So, I got several bottles of wine...and designed 3 different wine labels...of course for my business...but they get to drink the wine  :)  Next...I just need to get them slapped on...and decorate a a cool way to present them.

Tomorrow....is a scary day.  Sophie is having oral surgery.  And she has requested to be put out.  That is probably for the best....but makes me nervous!

Then of course...gotta go be Errand Girl in the afternoon.  Not liking having to leave my baby while I go work.  But, Lance will be home to take care of her.

And tonight was the second game for Sophie's Volleyball Tournament.  They played great last game...but tonight.  Not so much.  The other team...was scary!  They were HUGE!  Amazons I tell you!  2 of the girls could stand at the net and not never do more than put their arm up and they were over the net.

Intimidated our team....BIG TIME!

So, the team lost...badly.  But, had a good time.

I got sidetracked at the beginning of the game with PTO business & negotiating with other parents.

So, tomorrow will be big...but ok.  And I am looking forward to being able to read a magazine while I wait for my baby girl to get done.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

yes...I can wrap that...and other business ideas...and so busy!

You know...I am doing a Wedding Faire this Sunday.  I have been busting my butt to get everything together so I look better than I did last Faire.

I have been finding ideas for things to wrap all over the place.  You should see my deask...it has Altoids, a wine bottle, React 5 gum, a bottle of hot sauce...all waiting to get wrapped.

I also found some cool baby shower gifts that I am in the process of getting done....sushi socks?  cupcake onesies?  they are so cute!

BUT TIME!

Oh...I love Adele!  She is awesome.....yes....this is a commercial....but oh, I love her!

So, I have started assembling everything I need, updated & printed brochures for Errand Girl.  Designed & printed brochures for Sonora Wedding Planner.  Re-designed the order forms for It's a Wrap by EG.

And...got photos picked up from WalMart for scrapbook retreat, got them dated and ready to make kits to optimize my scrapbooking time  :)

Oh, and have done many loads of laundry, gotten our new dog acclimated to us and our home, watched Sophie in her volleyball tournament, dealt with Nash's Mommy attacks, working in Nash's kindergarten class, and planning a Green Day for our school on April 8th with an e-Waste pick up for a fundraiser.

No.....I am so glad I am not busy!

Oh...and vacation is coming the end of the month...and we have no plans....except for the condo we rented.  But, I have to make an itinerary for fun!  Yes!

Nope....not busy at all!

And why does my body ache????  Hum.....

Monday, March 7, 2011

oh my...the clocking is ticking...hurry!

So, I have not written in a couple of days...been busy.  But, then...when am I not???

Saturday was Nash's first practice for his 1st time at T-Ball.  OMG!  It was adorable.  The coaches are amazing.  The way they explained things to these 5 year olds....wow! 

notice the upside down glove  :)
and the look of joy when he hit the ball!
Gorillas and alligators....that's how you prepare to catch a ball when in the outfield.  How cool and simple is that???  Anyway...Nash is so cute!  And he loves T-ball!  This is one of the best things about being a Mom!

Yesterday, we went down the hill to go shopping at Target...my FAVORITE store!  And then we went to a friends house to adopt one of her dogs.  She lost her house to the economy and needed to find homes for her furry children. 

Last year we tried adoption from the Human Society.  I got talked into a dog that was not for us.  She was adorable...but HUGE!  And we were just not prepared for the work a puppy.....a really big puppy...took.  She was a Rottweiller, German Shepard & Chow mix.  She ate EVERYTHING in our backyard!

So, when my friend asked if I knew someone to take one of her dogs...I thought...this will be a perfect blend. 

I am not a yippy dog lover...at all.  But, Nash is a boy...and boys need dogs.  But, the last one scared him because of her size.  So, this is a small one.

She had 6 Shih Tzu's, parents & older puppies.  She had suggested one of the older puppies.  But, when we got to her house...all of them were yippy!  Except, the Daddy dog...Elvis.  He greeted us with a nice face...never made a peep...while the other dogs went nuts.  I knew...this was the dog for us  :)

Elvis......

He is so sweet.  Well trained.  Quiet.  He is also feeling kidnapped and just wants to go back home.  Poor thing.  But, he has decided I belong to him.  He follows me everywhere.

He will soon be the Errand Girl Mascot.

So...why...you ask is my clock ticking???

I have so much to do...and so little time!

Here is my line up!
  •  trying to get everything ready for the show coming!
  • Friday the 11th - dental surgery for Sophie
  • Saturday the 12th - T-Ball practice
  • Sunday the 13th - Wedding Show in Calaveras County...and no help...all alone this time since Sophie is having surgery.
  • Monday the 14th - meetings all day, volleyball practice & T-Ball practice every night
  • Tuesday thru Friday... lots of meetings and getting ready for Scrapbook Retreat!
  • Saturday the 19th, Scrapbook Expo with Debi!  OMG!  Too excited for it!
  • Sunday thru Wednesday....getting ready to go to Scrapbook Retreat and Sophie ready for a FNL Retreat!
  • Thursday....I am outta here.
  • Sunday...come home...get packed and get ready for vacation!
Ok.....no stress...none at all!

Do you know what Plantar Fasciitis is????  Well....foot pain.  Horrendous foot pain from the arches area of the foot.  yes, I wear cheap non-supportive shoes because I have hot feet, not as in ...wow, those are some nice feet!  But as in....OMG!  Is it hot in here????  MY feet are sweating!

Anyway...Just placed an order with a Shoe store that specializes in stuff for foot pain.

OMG!  This is a sign of getting older.  I am really considering ugly...but comfortable shoes!  What is happening here??????

Friday, March 4, 2011

thoughts...how I got here today

OK....if you read my blog you know I am in a period of change.

When I started my business Errand Girl....my plan was to make a recognizable name for myself & business, hardly ever advertise with the exception of my van and enjoy what I was doing.  I also said that I didn't want to business to be too much until Nash started kindergarten....yeah, I think I said that before.

So, here i am.

Spreading out...and up.

I think I really have figured all of this out.  And am loving what I am finding out about the new avenues I am taking...and how it is making me.

This is change.  I have NEVER been a fan of change.

I was raised in chaos, when things could change at a moments notice.  You could wake up one morning, be told you were moving today and by that night...it was a whole new world.  I hated it.  Or being woken up at 1am to watch "Whatever happened to Baby Jane" with Betty Davis & Joan Crawford because my Mom wanted company and was lonely.

Or being hired at the age of 16 to do the books for a cigarette distributor because he was sloshed and Mom needed him to go out with her.....at 11pm at night.  I made good money for it tho.  Oh, Scott Helms....I would wait up with Mom until 11pm or later for you to arrive.  Mom and I would watch MASH while waiting for you.  Then I would get your books done.....get paid...and go to my room and pretend I was deaf. 

Then on Sunday mornings....I would find you and Mom on the hide-a-bed...you would give me money to go to 7 Eleven
to buy you a chocolate milk, Hostess Cherry Pie and a Sunday edition of the Review Journal.  I always kept the change.

The house always smelled of booze, stale cigarettes & sex.

Oh...he wasn't the only man...there were many.  Too many for children to witness...and to me...16 is still a child.

Or always making deals with people that should not be making deals with kids....for safety, peace....life of those you love but really don't love you back in the same way....or the way you need to be loved.

I find my life amazing.

I am a pretty level headed person.  I know right from wrong, good from bad....and rotten parenting.

No wonder I know I can do anything....I have always been able to do to anything  :)  And well too!

Ok...so, my subject got a little twisted but I actually started out with no idea of where I was going  LOL

Who else could have paired up 7 Eleven, Virgina Slims, & Betty Davis with chocolate milk and a cherry pie.

And I am still here  :)  And happy.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

scrapbooking....what I LOVE to do

I always looked at scrapbooking as a craft that....those Moms did.  I never wanted to be one of THOSE Moms. 

You know...goodies two-shoes, drives a Van, works at school etc.......OMG!

Well, not the goodie two shoes thing...but I am one of THOSE moms!

OK...so....I am.

But, I am totally cool...and fabulous!  LOL

Well....in my world....I totally rock!

But...I actually was lead into this addiction by my Hubby. 

We had just gotten back from a fabulous trip/cruise to New York City, then cruised for 8 days to Puerto Rico, St. Thomas & Tortola.  We took my Mom & Step-Dad.  Nash was only 9 months old at the time.  We visited with Sophie's Daddy's family in New Jersey...it was an awesome trip! We came home with a HUGE stack of photos!

So, Hubby suggested maybe...we should scrapbook them.  I hemed & hahhed...then got a kit and tackled it.

Well!  I was hooked....IMMEDIATELY!

That was over 4 years ago.

Now...I have shelves of completed scrapbooks, a scrapbook room....I go to scrapbook retreats, started a business to teach scrapbooking & sell scrapbook supplies, will go to my first Scrapbook Expo in a couple of weeks, and was just asked by a major entity to become a certified teacher!

OK....yes, I am a junkie....a scrapbooking junkie!

I am one of THOSE people....woo hoo for me!
Oh....here I am at a scrapbook retreat!  And in a couple of weeks...I will be back!